不是孩子愛鬧情緒,是他想說卻不會說!


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Chinese Age 12 - Adult
平裝書 Paperback 288 pages
Approx. weight: 0.4 kg
Publication date: 23 Jan,2019
Barcode: 9789863843382 讀書共和

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作者: 莊琳君 | 適讀年齡: 成人 | 繁體中文 | 288 頁 | 平裝軟皮 | 17 x 23 x 1.8 cm | 出版日期:2019年1月23


孩子都2歲了還不會說話?
3歲孩子竟然已經學會說謊?
當孩子出現負面情緒,該怎麼引導他紓解?
孩子明明不開心,卻不懂得拒絕人……

  自我表達力=語言力+思考力+情緒覺察力
  在德國,幼兒不學讀書寫字,
  而是學習「勇敢為自己發聲」!
  自我表達力的培養,0~6歲是關鍵!

  德國幼兒園的19堂3階段自我表達課
  學說話→學表達→學溝通
  讓孩子說出需求、意願,打好獨立自主基礎
  從日常生活學會覺察情緒、同理他人、處理衝突

  學說話——
  孩子都2歲了,卻不太開口說話
  華人慣性思維:「孩子明明會說卻不說,應該讓他在人前多開口說話!」
  德國彈性做法:忽略開口說話與情緒間的密切關聯,對情緒敏感的孩子只會得到反效果,堅持「有問必答」沒意義,說話練習從字彙延伸的拋接練習做起。

  學表達——
  孩子情緒大暴走,不停地哭鬧
  華人慣性思維:「你不要哭,好好用說的,告訴媽媽你為什麼哭……」
  德國彈性做法:很多時候孩子不是不聽話,而是他不知如何表達自己的感覺。當孩子透過言語表達與外界連結,知道自己的情緒被理解,就能有更好的情緒控管力。

  學溝通——
  孩子對人說:「我不想跟你玩!」
  華人慣性思維:「你怎麼可以這樣說話,太沒禮貌了!」
  德國彈性做法: 教導孩子有禮貌不代表不能有不同意見,他必須懂得拒絕自己不喜歡或不舒服的事。同時讓他知道拒絕別人不能只靠情緒和蠻力,也牽涉到思考能力和語言技巧。

  為自己發聲,德國小小孩自我表達力養成之道!

● 從認識不同情緒開始,教孩子學會正確情緒表達
──>懂得用言語表達意願,是孩子學會自我保護的第一步

●可以憤怒可以悲傷,接住孩子的求救警訊,情緒疏通不壓抑
──>當孩子感覺情緒被接納,比較容易走出孤立的態勢。

●不管小事大事,孩子老是愛告狀?
──>小問題別用大情緒回應,紅綠燈概念教孩子學會情緒調節能力。

●「我不想這樣玩!」學會尊重別人的底線
──>「身體的主人只有我一個!」教孩子向不請自來的親密接觸說「不!」

●童話世界也藏匿著危險,教孩子判讀情況學自保
──>危機意識是獨立自主的條件,讓孩子知道他可以拒絕陌生人的邀請

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