德國媽媽這樣教自律


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Chinese Age 12 - Adult
平裝書 Paperback 296 pages
Approx. weight: 0.4 kg
Publication date: 09 May,2018
Barcode: 9789863842811 讀書共和

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作者: 趙麗榮 | 適讀年齡: 成人 | 繁體中文 | 296 頁 | 平裝軟皮 | 17 x 23 x 1.48 cm | 出版日期:2018年5月9


年度最具指標性、最貼近百萬父母需求親子教養書
誠品年度人文類TOP1、博客來年度親子教養類TOP4、
金石堂年度非文學類TOP24、何嘉仁、紀伊國屋暢銷榜

  規矩大於寵愛,身教重於言教!
  德國媽媽這樣教孩子學會「自律」

  教養不能複製,但不會只有一條道路,因為「教養」本身就是一種價值。
  透過各國媽媽教養觀,看見自己的盲點,也看見我們還能給孩子什麼!

  秉持「放養教育」的德國父母認為:孩子是小花也是大樹,
  在成長過程中需要陽光、雨露,更需要在風雨中歷練。

  德國人的嚴謹有目共睹,如此強大的民族性,從何而來?答案是:教育。
對德國媽媽來說:與其喊破嗓子,不如做出樣子。
  這是德式教養的鐵律,不可改變!

  此書以一個華人家庭在德國的生活與育子經驗做為主軸,以簡明的生活故事說明一個遠嫁德國的媽媽,因為受到了德國教養觀的衝擊,進而省思中國人的教養觀念有哪些地方需要調整,而我們又可以從德國的教養觀念中獲得什麼啟發。

你最頭大的教養問題,德國媽媽這樣教:

  .孩子丟三落四怎麼辦?
  ►德國媽媽教養三「不」曲:不提醒、不幫忙、不管他!

  .孩子花錢如流水?
  ►給孩子的耶誕禮物──對帳本!多花的錢,就扣回來!教會孩子,多花的每一分錢都是父母的。

  .孩子不好好吃飯,怎麼辦?
  ►德國媽媽的飢餓教育:不好好吃飯,就得挨餓!

  .小孩搶玩具,怎麼辦?
  ►先到者先得,不然都別玩!教會孩子,社會沒有絕對的公平,只有規則與秩序。

  .孩子拖拖拉拉就是不睡?
  ►說定時間,絕不妥協!父母破壞規則,孩子就會輕視規則。

  .我的孩子戀愛了?
  ►德國媽媽尊重孩子的愛情,因為學習愛與被愛是一種可貴的能力。

  ★德國媽媽這樣教出堅強、獨立、寬容、節約好孩子!

  .送孩子去磨難營三天?→社會的磨難更多,這樣教孩子堅強!
  .要放養,不要圈養→讓孩子自由發展、任意玩耍,這樣教孩子獨立!
  .沒有天生優秀的父母!父母犯錯,也要向孩子道歉→身體力行,這樣教孩子寬容!
  .兩歲孩子就有銀行帳戶?→從生活做起,培養儲蓄意識,這樣教孩子節約!

  62條德式教養鐵規則,教出自律好孩子!

  •   【鐵規則1】不要多「幫」孩子做,而是多「讓」孩子做
  •   【鐵規則2】孩子有十個缺點,父母要為其中五個負責
  •   【鐵規則3】教養孩子,父母必須以身作則
  •   【鐵規則4】告訴孩子:跌倒了,自己站起來
  •   【鐵規則5】不要在孩子心裡埋下暴力的種子
  •   【鐵規則6】學習如何爭辯,是成長的第一步
  •   【鐵規則7】學習愛與被愛是一種可貴的能力
  •   【鐵規則8】讓孩子在碰撞中成長,而不是在呵護中長大
  •   【鐵規則9】不以自己的經驗,取代孩子的感受
  •   【鐵規則10】教育孩子:社會沒有絕對公平,只有規則與秩序

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